At CCV we believe a person’s wedding is one of the most important spiritual moments in their life. Therefore, we take our potential involvement in your wonderful occasion quite seriously. Our goal is not only to help you have a memorable wedding day, but to help prepare you and your future spouse to build a successful, lifelong partnership. While a lifelong, loving marriage partnership doesn’t come easily, we believe that with Jesus’ help it is within everyone’s reach. We’re excited about how God can work in your relationship over the upcoming months!
Weddings are performed by members of CCV’s pastoral staff. Please review the information below so that you’ll have a clear understanding of what the wedding process at Christ’s Church of the Valley looks like from start to finish. After reading through the information, the next step is to complete the Wedding Request Form.
Weddings at Christ’s Church of the Valley
Here’s what will take place once we’ve received your completed form:
The Wedding Request Form will be reviewed by a member of CCV’s pastoral care team to determine if the bride and/or groom meets the necessary requirements to be married at Christ’s Church of the Valley. If the Wedding Request Form is approved, a member of our pastoral care team will contact you to confirm your wedding date and time and to let you know which CCV pastor will perform your ceremony.
Once a CCV staff pastor has been assigned, they’ll contact you to schedule a meeting to discuss the wedding date, plans, and other ideas. At this meeting the CCV Wedding Agreement will be reviewed and signed by the couple and the CCV staff pastor.
In order for a CCV staff pastor to perform a wedding, the couple must:
- Successfully complete six weeks of premarital counseling by a Christian counselor licensed in the State of Pennsylvania. The counseling must be completed at least two months prior to the wedding date.Schedule three follow up counseling sessions. The counseling sessions must be set for three months, six months and 12 months after the wedding day.
- At the conclusion of counseling, the counselor is required to send a letter to the CCV staff pastor stating that the sessions were successfully completed and include the dates for the three follow up sessions. This letter must be received no later than 45 days prior to the wedding.
If a couple wants to be married by a CCV staff pastor and they are living together and/or sexually active, the couple must agree to stay apart sexually from the date of signing the CCV Wedding Agreement until the wedding night. Because the Bible teaches that a man and a woman should not have sex before they are married, we believe this commitment before marriage is the best way to start fresh and do things God’s way.
The CCV staff pastor and the couple will meet two additional times prior to the wedding ceremony. The first meeting will be conducted to finalize wedding plans and the second meeting will be the actual wedding rehearsal.
It is the responsibility of the couple to obtain the marriage license prior to the wedding. The CCV staff pastor will be responsible for mailing the marriage license to the county office.
On the day of the wedding, the ceremony will take place with the CCV staff pastor arriving approximately 45 minutes prior to the wedding and leaving after the ceremony is completed and the marriage license is signed. While the staff pastor and his/her family may choose to join the wedding party for the reception, this may not be possible and therefore should not be expected.
CCV staff pastors believe that God’s intention is for partners to be married for life; however, they also understand that people make mistakes. CCV staff pastors will marry those who have been divorced. We do require that the couple make this a major area of exploration in their counseling sessions.
CCV’s current facility is available, but couples can also rent other church buildings, chapels, community buildings, and outdoor facilities for their ceremony. Regarding the other aspects of the ceremony, such as programs, flowers and musicians, it is the responsibility of the couple to make these arrangements. The CCV staff pastor will gladly assist as much as possible to provide contacts and direction.
A fee of $300 will be charged for the wedding ceremony. The fee is to be paid directly to the CCV staff pastor performing the ceremony.
A fee of $250 will be charged for use of a CCV building. If sound/technical support is required from CCV during the ceremony, a fee of $25/hour is to be paid directly to the technician.
In order to meet the requirements for a CCV wedding, we recommend that you initiate the wedding process 12 months prior to your wedding date. CCV does not schedule weddings on Easter and Thanksgiving weekends, or the weeks before or after Christmas.
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